tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858170935046417472.post7263262425507984571..comments2023-10-14T04:20:49.096-05:00Comments on Faith's Firm Foundation: Can You Guess Our Love Languages?Wendyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08230575436747893912noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858170935046417472.post-65357993848510548432011-02-16T11:13:15.108-06:002011-02-16T11:13:15.108-06:00Hi Wendy,
My daughter is 18 but she really wasn...Hi Wendy,<br />My daughter is 18 but she really wasn't ready for this talk until now as I have always homeschooled her and she really has been very innocent and still is. I believe that we, as mothers, should give our girls the 'talk' otherwise they will learn it from somone else's point of view. I want my daughter to be grounded in the Bible and right now she is really starting to flutter her wings so she needs to know. I did talk to her about marriage in general when she was 13 but we have been going to deatail as of late. :s I have been using the woman of Proverbs and we are coming to an agreement on courting.<br /><br />Blessings,<br /><><child of Godhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11635805396738062444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858170935046417472.post-40691501283130079642011-02-15T23:23:49.368-06:002011-02-15T23:23:49.368-06:00Child of God,
I KNOW I didn't realize how my a...Child of God,<br />I KNOW I didn't realize how my actions and words affected men, or what signals I was sending when I was younger. I have come to think of that as a kind of "unfaithfulness" to my husband. <br /><br />There's a really fine line to walk in our behavior with men, and I want to err on this side--the safe side.<br /><br />A woman should not want EVER to give to another what rightfully belongs to her husband--present or future. Though it's possible to naively do it without knowing--I don't think this happens often--if responded to, a woman knows it! Flirting and playing "games" with men, using them for your own fun or purposes--that's the kind of behavior which cheapens a woman, pulls down her marriage or makes her future marriage weakened from the start, if she's not married yet.<br /><br />So cool to hear you had a great talk with your daughter today! You are so right, as a mom, to do that. Though I don't know how old she is, I think that talking to our girls can really make a difference in how they treat men in general, and what kind of marriage they will have someday in the future.<br /><br />I have purposely talked in generalities, but there are a lot of ways a woman or girl "sends signals" and we all know what we're talking about.<br />Thanks so much for your additional comments; great insights!<br />Blessings,<br />WendyWendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08230575436747893912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858170935046417472.post-38031407094875263692011-02-15T19:41:46.058-06:002011-02-15T19:41:46.058-06:00Nice post and a very good warning especially for w...Nice post and a very good warning especially for women or young ladies. Most girls, I think, don't realize the signals they give off. I know I didn't realize until just a few years ago after my husband and I sat down and really had a heart to heart. He told me I am doing things that I really shouldn't be since I am a married women and I told him they were just natural and I didn't realize I had control over. When I realized the body language I was sending off I really smartened up! <br /><br />I think maybe now a days girls do realize these signals as they are not as naive as I was. I had a great talk with my daughter today and I hope she can understand this better than I ever did.<br /><br />Great post thanks!<br /><><child of Godhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11635805396738062444noreply@blogger.com