Love and Marriage: Character Qualities of a Future Daughter-in-Law?

I read somewhere once that it's a good idea to write down a list of the characteristics that you want to be present in the girl/guy that your child will marry someday, when it's still a long, long ways off, and you can be objective. It's important to use Scripture as your guide, as well as prayer.  So, when he was a little boy (smile) I did this (he is now 24). I made a list of the character qualities in a wife for Dane.  There are no Scripture verses written down, and there are items that only reflect my son's interests and personality, but otherwise they are pretty good guidelines for preparing our daughter to be a good wife, too, and may also be helpful as characteristics that I should still aim for as a wife after all these years.
This is the first time anyone has ever seen this. I share it hesitantly, but in the hopes that it will encourage you young moms to be praying regularly for your children's future spouses, and to make a list yourselves. Character is important, and if you've written character qualities down, and have been praying for the person displaying those qualities to come along for years, you'll not only recognize those qualities in a person when you see them, but you'll recognize when they're missing, and not be so willing to settle, or compromise, and accept a person who lacks character.  You marry a family, not just a person, and emotions can sometimes cloud the perceptions of everyone and cause people to become enamored with someone who's lacking what have always been considered essentials in character and circumstances.  Each person's list will be different in some respects but, for a Christian, at the top of the list must be to marry a solid Christian, who is living for the Lord. So, here's my list of:
Character Qualities of a Wife for Dane

1.  Submissive (demonstrates this in her present home)
2.  Respectful (demonstrates this in her present home)
3.  Sweet and Gentle
4.  Bright/Intelligent
5.  Beautiful/Attractive
6.  Disciplined/Self-controlled: in body, mind, and spirit
7.  Well-ordered:  present near surroundings (such as her bedroom and desk) and in personal life
8.  Good manager of money, time and home
9.  Good sense of humor
10. Active person:  Enjoys doing things, going places, being busy
11. Skilled musician (loves music and plays at least one instrument)
12. Loves History, interested in current events
13. Completely sold-out to the Lord; knows and is a student of the Word; not a new Christian
14. Using her gifts in some way:  fruitful
15. Growing in the Lord:  Responding, Changing in response to the Holy Spirit and the Word of God
16. Loves to read
17. Discerning
18. Wants however many children the Lord will give
19. Committed to Staying Home and Being a Wife and Mother
20. Not ambitious:  Content to Stay at Home, under authority, using her gifts to build up other families.  Not restless or rebellious--fighting her role
21. Flexible
22. Cheerful/Easy-going
23. Loves to Travel
24. From a solid, conservative, Godly family--Likeminded:  raising their children to go in the same direction and with same values as ours.
25. Will raise daughters to wear dresses.
26. Is Modest
27. Not flirtatious
28. Treats her Dad with respect, and serves him.
29. Great relationships with siblings.
30. Is Kind in Tongue
31. Not an angry woman
32. Compassionate, Generous, Giving
33. Will reach out her hand to the needy
34. Skilled in wifely duties
35. Comes from a family that we respect
36. If she would become "just like her mother/father", it'd be fine.
37. We have a good relationship with her, and love her.
38. Is a people-person
39. Personable; confident/polite in social settings; Poised
40. Given to Hospitality.  Able, having helped her mom in this area for a long time--a good cook.
41. Hard worker; self-motivated
42. Creative/Resourceful