Timely Tips on Tuesday: Heart of the Matter Online Conference

This Conference sounds really good!
(And it's A Homeschool Conference You Can Attend

in Your Jammies!)

All you need is a computer, internet access and speakers!

Heart of the Matter Online Conference 

is Coming August 9-13, 2010!

Click on the link above to go to the registration page!

Register Now! Starts in 1 Week!

A Few of the Included Topics for This Year's Conference are:

• Being Salt and Light Families
• Christian Homeschool Success in High School
• Homeschoolers--Ordinary World Changers

and

• Quiet Time for Mother--How To Find Rest

Home School Hop: Our Homeschooling "Style"

Hello everyone! And Happy Monday! Today at Home School Blog Hop the Theme/Question is,

"What is your Homeschool Style?"

I love this question, but it's not necessarily a quick answer:)  You see, most Homeschoolers do not start and end with the same "style".  That's because we are teaching "unique individuals"--children.  And they are also growing and changing individuals!  And we are, hopefully, growing and changing as the Lord Jesus Christ makes us more and more into His image, and as we learn from Him, He shows what to emphasize in our home and teaching, and He eliminates other things that we thought were so important, and He leads us day by day.  That is as it should be. So, every day and every year, we need to be seeking Him for direction in our Homeschool, our families, and be obedient when He moves, to follow.

Having said that, here is a little overview of our story.  I have long considered that I need to do a series on How we Started, What we Did, What we would do differently, etc.  This, today, is not going to be a comprehensive answer, but bear with me, please.  I started my son, Dane, in Kindergarten, as many do, "bringing school home".  We set up a little school desk, I found curriculum, planned a very structured day for him, and was very excited!  It did not take long to realize this was not the way to Homeschool! The reason for Homeschooling was not to copy their failed efforts!  My little guy was frustrated, and so was I. During those early days, I read Raymond and Dorothy Moore's books, (such as "Better Late Than Early") and though I didn't agree with everything they said, I liked the learning-as-we-live philosophy.  I love learning! I wanted all of life to be a learning experience.  If I/we have done one thing right in our Homeschool, it was to teach our children to love learning and reading, and to know how to go about finding out the answers to their questions, which is the essence of learning.

Let me tell you about a time when my son was around 6 and my daughter, 3.  We wanted to teach them to be attentive and obedient.  These character qualities were at the core of our study, as we looked in Scripture to see what God said we should be attentive to, and what that means. We read about people and animals that exhibited the quality of attentiveness. We thought about and talked about listening to your parents, and responding right away in obedience!  We read some interesting books about the ear and hearing, which we borrowed from the library (at both the 3 and 6-year-old levels). We looked at the pictures of the human ear.  We did an experiment of placing some ping-pong balls on top of our big speakers, and turned the volume way up, and watched what happened to the balls!  They bounced all over!  We watched the movie, (also borrowed from the library) "The Miracle Worker" about Helen Keller, and her teacher, Anne Sullivan.  Helen, as you know, was deaf. A beginning knowledge of sign language was gained.  We played games like "Simon Says" in which you have to listen very carefully, and do what you're told.  We marched to music, with little "instruments", like a stick and a piece of wood, and a triangle, beating in time to the music. You have to pay attention if you don't want to run into the person in front of you! We had so much fun! This is the method I love the best. It succeeds, and it's fun!  How do I know it succeeded? 1) I still remember this unit study! and 2) One evening my husband came home from work, and at supper, was talking to Dane about his schoolday and what he had learned and he asked him to explain "how the ear hears". Dane answered with one word, summing it up perfectly:  vibration!

How did I come up with all these ideas?  It must have taken hours--days--weeks! to put together a study like this, right?  Well, I happened onto KONOS. (I hesitate to call it "curriculum", though.) I still love these books. I went to a workshop at the annual "curriculum fair", but I didn't want to go to the extent that they talked about, in using KONOS.  For me, it was a resource.  Excellent tools and resources stand the test of time. This one was excellent when I was just starting out Homeschooling, and is excellent now!

Konos is based on character qualities, and gives suggestions (tons) for three different age groups, and categorizes them according to the subject (Science, Math, Bible, Language Arts, etc.).  Important Advantage: You pick the activities that fit your family, your interests, your time constraints!  In other words, it's completely customizable. In the main book, there is a skeleton lesson plan, which includes the whole family--all ages.  For instance, there are some activities/books which everyone would read  or do. Then there are others, such as an age-appropriate book on the ear, recommended for each age group.  The littlees might then color a picture of an ear, while the middle students write a few sentences, (practicing their handwriting for the finished product), and the older students may write a paper on the ear, or Helen Keller, with footnotes.  Each level builds on the barebones of the study, but everyone in the family is studying the same subject.  Book lists are extremely helpful, as well, making it easy to go online and check your library to see which ones are available in your system. The authors rate the titles as to their excellence.
What I loved about doing school this way was that everyone was studying the same thing.  I could do as little, or as much, as I wanted, depending on my schedule. We could involve Dad in many of our "school" activities. And it was so much fun!  Why I didn't do more of this: It takes time to plan. (The authors do offer lesson plans, but these will not be tailored to your individual family, removing much of the benefit.)  However, this is timeless education. I would still be able to use this book, which is old, for ideas, if I was teaching today. I keep it because I hope to use the ideas with my grandchildren someday.  But there are updated versions, as well.
Konos Curriculum Volume 1 With Lesson Plans

As our children entered the late elementary and junior high years, we adapted the Unit Study approach, and built it around our love for History.  We made a timeline from a long roll of paper about a foot wide, put it on the wall downstairs, and studied one century at a time of  U.S. History.  We put copies of photos of the people we studied, inventions, or favorite books we read.  We also included our own "history" with Grandparents' and Great-grandparents' photos placed in the appropriate places, as well as our children's photos. This was important to their understanding that history is about real people who really lived.  This was a fantastic experience for our family, as we looked at the important figures who lived during each time period, read their biographies, wrote papers, studied the historical events that took place, and went off on "bunny trails" when something was especially interesting to us. We went on Field Trips: during our study of the 1800's we visited historic homes, (such as that of railroad tycoon James J. Hill), went to Old Kelley Farm (a working farm from the mid 1800's where children can do many of the chores from that era and enjoy hands-on activities), and the Folsom House, in which we enjoyed a personal tour due to no other tourists there at the time, and where my children were invited to play the 150-year-old square grand piano!)

Two time periods particularly stand out in my mind.  During our study of the 1900's we were able to find the most interesting books about people who lived during the 1940's, during WWII, and my grandparents' and great-grandparents' eras. "In Grandma's Day" is the title of a series of books with excellent photos and short descriptive text (which were informative and fun especially when they described something that was still around when I grew up, but that I had forgotten!) telling what everyday life was like during that time!  Each book is written with dialogue from someone who grew up during that time, telling about their experiences, and with the added benefit of pictures to help us understand.  While studying about WWII, we also read the biography of a missionary, Darlene Deibler Rose, called "Evidence Not Seen: A Woman's Miraculous Faith in the Jungles of World War II" which had a profound impact on all our family, because of her faith and witness even in this desperate situation.  There is also an interview of her in video format.  As we studied a time period, we would read aloud as a family at night. We enjoyed missionary biographies. We would find out about the geography, customs and so much more through our reading. But all we knew was that we were having a good time reading together.  This is one of the great advantages of Homeschooling! Mostly I was the one to read, while my husband would listen and my daughter and son would do something with their hands, such as drawing, knitting, or organizing a collection which didn't take a lot of their attention.  These were extremely special times for us, as we bonded, learned, and our faith was challenged.

When we studied the 1960's and America's exploration of "Space", we learned so much through, especially, the video documentaries which we were able to borrow from the library.  We all looked forward to watching these informative, and professional, productions of an exceptional time in our history.  I think watching the astronauts landing on the moon, together as a family, as though it was happening "right now", is certainly a favorite memory for all of us!

When we read missionary stories we would study the places in the world that were talked about, and sometimes cook ethnic dishes from the region, or visit a store or museum which expanded our experience.  Though we didn't use the Unit Study approach throughout all our years of Homeschooling, these are the years which I remember!  The learning and bonding stuck. I highly recommend this method, for building families, enjoying each other, and remembering what you've learned.

For those subjects which do not fit into a unit study (we had only a few subjects which didn't fit into our Unit Studies, such as Math), we looked for a good curriculum which was successful, not too expensive, and fit our children's learning styles.  If you are looking for good advice on what curriculum to buy, Cathy Duffy has been the leader in curriculum review for 20 years--or more!)

Link up and participate in the Home School Blog Hop (thank you to Kylie at Our Worldwide Classroom for hosting!) and meet other Homeschoolers!

Homeschooling: Workshop on Learning Styles

Hi everyone! I just found a wonderful website/blog called Heart of the Matter (http://heartofthematteronline.com) and for the third time in 24 hours was prompted to think and read about Learning Styles! I think that knowing how you learn and how your child learns, is probably the best help in successfully Homeschooling that you can have. Teaching using their learning style is like speaking their native language, versus trying to teach them, but speaking in a language they don't understand. I like going back to the basics. Does my child (and do I) learn better by seeing/reading something, or by hearing it? (Visual or Auditory) All children are tactile to some degree, and will benefit by being able to touch, feel and interact with whatever they are learning. But we adults can also benefit by handling what we're learning about! I find I'm personally more tactile with each passing day. But, I can still remember my mother admonishing me constantly not to touch things!  (Especially in stores:)  I have to "do it" (tactile) to learn it. So, I'm very tactile. However, my main learning style is "visual learner".  I am a living example that the more senses employed in the learning, the better you'll remember what you've learned. This applies whether you're learning to make your bed, learning your math facts, or learning how to redesign your blog. Learning Styles are important!

So, I wanted to tell you about a great resource, if you want to know more about Learning Styles! Over at Heart of the Matter, there's info about an upcoming workshop by Carol Barnier called "What are you thinking? Learning Styles and Beyond"! To read more about it, go to the link below. There's all the information there about the Live Workshop Feb. 22 on Learning Styles and the online Parenting and Home Education Conference.  Go to this great info and link about Learning Styles for all the details.

Homeschooling: Moms of Preschoolers

Amy at "Raising Arrows" has a great post for Moms of Preschoolers thinking of Homeschooling, and I totally agree with her. Please go and read this excellent post.

I want to encourage you, if you are in the first years of Homeschooling or considering it, that you can do it!  Look at all you've taught your child(ren) already.  Everything they know, they learned from you.  You've been Homeschooling since the day they were born.  How have you done it? By prayer, by learning as you did it. By counsel from trusted advisors. By trial and error.  You went out and got the training, information, knowledge for how to do something or how to teach your child something, *when you needed it*!  That's how you Homeschool.  God gave you every skill you need to Homeschool, when He made you a mom or dad.  He gave you the responsibility to raise your children. He gives you the wisdom and ability to do what He gives you to do.  Trust Him.  He won't let you down.

Teaching the 3R's are the only thing that's important in the early years. Teaching phonics and reading, which is fun, I think--making your child a lover of books--is the one thing you will do that will unlock all other areas of learning.  But do it in your child's timing.  Each child has their own timetable.  We played with wooden blocks that had letters on them. I probably got them at an antique store or a thrift store.  I would say the sound that the letter made while we played. Then, as they were able to make the sounds correctly, I moved on to putting sounds (blocks) together, until I had words, like cat, or mom, and they could repeat the sounds back to me. Then later I would print really short sentences down for them to read. It was playing, not school. No desk, no curriculum. I tried and failed miserably(!) at trying to make my little guy sit at a desk and do school. Don't try to bring the public schoolroom home!

As Homeschooling has taken off, one of the good/bad things is that there are so many more options and choices of curriculum. You can so easily get overwhelmed. The benefits of Homeschooling include lots of time together. Don't get tricked into thinking that you've got to have a certain curriculum, (and if you choose the wrong one, your kids will be ruined).  Can I let you in on a little secret?  Every Homeschooler does it differently. Actually, every Homeschooled kid has a different education, even in the same family. And you're going to make "mistakes" just like I did. When you're graduating your kids and even beyond, you're going to *know* it was by God's grace that you did it.

Read up and study all you can about the "tools of your trade", but follow Godly people's example. Get to know what's out there, but don't feel you have to use it.  Listen to advice that is Biblical. Be on your knees daily, talk things over with your husband, and ask his counsel, trust the Lord to give you wisdom.

Finally, two things: Know each of your children's learning styles, and your learning/teaching style.  Study how to teach to their style.  (Using all the senses in learning is how we all learn best.)  Secondly, I recommend Ruth Beechick's three little books (you can get them all in one book or individually) for moms of preschoolers.







 

A Note to Homeschoolers about Mindmapping

One more dot to connect: Mindmapping is a great tool for you Homeschooling moms who may have a child that thinks outside the box, or maybe you feel like they're "not getting it" at all!  Mindmapping may help them.  This gets into the whole area of Learning Styles, which is another post for another day, but it's really, really important. If you haven't already heard about Learning Styles, finding out what yours and your child(rens) Learning Styles are can turn them into excited learners as opposed to "not getting it" and tuning out.  It's worth checking out, and also mindmapping.